Legal Question in Criminal Law in Connecticut

Complex situation which I don't understand?

This is a very complicated situation. And I wondered if anyone can help. My Child's father and I are trying to reconcile and reunite to form a household for the sake of our 7 year old daughter. We are realizing that as a Black family our child needs her father and we would like to come together and are still in love with each other. We want to live together. A few years ago when my child's father got out of prison we were very angry with each other and I called his parole and got him rearrested. It's a long story as to why I did what I did, but I did. As a result he did about 6 more months for breaking rules at the halfway house. It;s a very long story. Anyway, once he did the 6 extra month's he went up before the parole board and even though I have no criminal record, they told him that because I was the one who called the parole on him for breaking the rules he could only have minimal contact with me. Well some time has gone by and we realize that we really want to live together and we are both working on things together and realize that we have always go along very well. It's a long complex story. But my question is we BOTh want to live together and are not allowed at this moment as a result. How do we change that?


Asked on 2/21/09, 9:04 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Carlos Gonzalez Gonzalez Legal Associates PLLC

Re: Complex situation which I don't understand?

Your situation is more common than you'd expect. We must learn that

All of our actions have ramifications. In this case the system will do

Whatever it can to protect you from the person you filed

Charges against... And the fact that you've changed your

Mind is meaningless to them.

For future reference the system should never be used out

Of anger or emotion because the end result is unfair and

Bad for everyone.

You must simply wait it out. Much luck

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Answered on 2/21/09, 9:13 am


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