Legal Question in Family Law in Missouri

There are things that an attorney ought not share dye to their duty of confidentiality. But, there are no absolute vars to an attorney talking to opposing counsel or pro se parties to effectuate litigation or settlement. You did not describe what you meant by "comment " that could mean a lot if things. So, there is no way to determine if what was said was wrong. Perhaps you should consult directly with an attorney in the area. Share what was said, and get their assessment

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