Legal Question in Civil Rights Law in India

I am 33 years and based in New Delhi. I have ongoing matrimony issue. We had love marriage after know each other for 10 years. I never had good relationship with their parents they abused me many times before and after marriage. I made things clear to my wife before marriage either we should not marry or i (and my kid) will not go ever.. but you can go whenever you want. She was agreed on this and we got to married.

After marriage things are suddenly changed and she stated disrespecting me and my family on every small things. Now we have 2yrs kid and she always trying to take her to their home. Now if we say no she run away with kid from home without informing anyone and she took all jewelry also.

This all so messed up. I can�t even understand how to go with it. Their parents always disrespecting me and she also taking their side. I feel like doing compromises all the time. In start of marriage i thought it will improve but now it has been three yrs and nothing better. She again run away from home with the kind last month and wanted to stay there. In past i used to go after her and bring her back but now I thinking how long i have to face this. Every time i went there she trying to force things on me. Bottom line is she just don�t want to do anything and on the same time she want her rule and every comfort. So didn�t call her from past 1month and also not going to her place.

I don�t know it that right or wrong pls suggest what if I want to take divorce. How i can fill is that possible. For others it must be small thing but for me and my family its every day hassle deal with her.


Asked on 7/08/13, 10:03 pm

4 Answers from Attorneys
KarVai Legal Solutions Rajiv Gupta 9811284735 Ch.No: 359, Western Wing, Tis Hazari, Delhi www.karvai.in

you may settle this matter for the sake of your child with the intervention of elders in the family. legally you cannot stop her from visiting her parents place.

thanks and regards

Adv. Rajiv

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Answered on 7/08/13, 10:11 pm
Fca Prashant Chavan Expert Edge LLP

09.07.2013

Dear Sir,

Parents have a tendency to have an adverse reaction when they learn that their daughter is going to marry a man of her choice, and not of their choice. Even if the girl's parents have verbally abused you initially, they regret their words later on, when they actually witness that your marriage is a success.

Since you had agreed with your wife that she is free to go wherever she likes, it would be wrong on your part now to curtail her freedom. She understands her responsibility of your child, and she too has to put in the desired effort, to see that your child progresses well.

You may not like this, but you enjoy your freedom when you are left to yourself, so it is only fair that you listen to your wife when you are at their place. Divorce is not the answer, as you will only drift away from your child.

You need to balance your life and time with your parents and your family and your wife's side.

A reconciliatory approach is recommended.

Regards,

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Answered on 7/08/13, 10:54 pm
Setu Niket Curare Legal

You matter needs complete examination as frequent visits and continuous intervention of your wife constitutes mental cruelty which is a ground for divorce.

Feel free to contact me on 9873109672 for opinion and analysis.

Kind Regards

Setu Niket

Advocate

Delhi

9873109672

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Answered on 7/09/13, 4:39 am
Fca Prashant Chavan Expert Edge LLP

10.07.2013

Repeat query ... already answered.

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Answered on 7/09/13, 7:18 pm


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