Legal Question in Civil Rights Law in India

Hi Respected Sir/Mam,

I live in Bangalore brought in a middle-class well brought up family, I got arranged marriage to a girl few months back (she is 27 and me 30, both are well educated but more of introverts) . She seem very emotional in all aspects of life and cries a lot, indeed thats the way she is pampered by her parents and brother since she is the only daughter where everything was brought to her knee and kept very happy in all possible ways, she hardly knows how to cook basic meals or do very basic work at home or even dress herself. She loves me but is always doubtful whether I love her or not or will I desert her, etc.. She thinks a lot on every and comment made on her scared whether her negatives would pull her down and the relationship even though I am supportive and tell her to take her time. But the way she is pampered to, she cries unneccessarily and asks stupid questions or gets angry even for smallest comments from my parents (which I feel are good feedback from elders to improve). What scares the hell out of me she even tells sometime that she may commit SUICIDE if things dont go well with this relationship or if she feels insecure/abused for even the smallest extent....

What should I do about this apart from counselling with a psychatrist (which I think she will oppose since she thinks she is perfect), from a legal point of view will I or my family be in trouble if she goes crazy anytime with such stupid actions, since she is hardly willing to change or get adjusted & always want to be pampered or cared about in the same way while she was with her parents or willing to go the extreme way..

Thanks for your help with this miserable story of mine.

Surya

(Feels like I married a wrong girl for no wrong reason from me or my family and now struggling daily with all the pampering which there stupid parents did all those 27 years without teaching basics of living and gettting adjusted as a girl, I am paying the hefty price now, feeling really depressed how life hits so hard at you for no evident fault of yours or my parents who are so co-operative, also as FYI there was not a single paisa of dowry or any sort of harrasment made from my side but this sheer immaturity of hers is killing me everyday)

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