Legal Question in Criminal Law in India

My name is Tripti and I married kailaash Kumar (is in govt job) on 8th Dec 2015 through matrimonial site. I was in communication with him

from last 1 year through matrimonial site. It was our mutual understanding that will spend very less amount on shadi and there are some my saving and will use it for our future. I tried to go back but I was infatuated by him (There are some my message with him that i have my own money , all messages of before marriage)

On 29th September 2015, Shadi was fixed (it was already conveyed by girls family that girl family will do good marriage as per their hasiyat and will not spend much amount on shadi and whatever remaining amount, will be left in account of girls it was already conveyed to boy side)

On 4th Oct 2015, On phone, He asked me to do wrong sexual thing on which i said no to him he abused me and said no for the rista.

On 12th Nov 2015,On the phone,I said no to him that he is not good boy and will not marry him and asked him to return my money Rs. 13000 of the ROKA then he threatened me that he will ruin my life and my family have to pay for it.

On next morning inspite of saying no by me, he made phone to my Father Shri Ji and asked him to book banquet hall and convince him ( My parents were not aware about the situation and communication between us and shadi days are nearer and was not able to utter any words to my parents due to fear).

On 27th November 2015 on the day of Nisaani in kailaash's home , His mother Mrs. mother in law demanded of diamond ring , 5 golds ring and 3 chain and 1 gold necklace and cash of Rs. 2,50,000 in front of people then my father shri said no for the rista and apne ghar aane lage then kailaash convinced my father ki koi nhi jitna ho sake abi utna kr jao, My father asked me before giving nisaani but i was infatuated by kailaash cause i was in communication with him for one year and asked my father to give nisaani.

By observing, Mrs mother in law bad and lalchi behaviour on the Nisaani and their demand, On 2nd Dec 2015, My mother Mrs Dhanwati and Sister and father Shri went to kailaash's home in for asking their views where his mother mother in law and Father Shri father in law insulted my family and just talking about how the money will be spent asked for Golds,Cash, Swift zxi Car on boys name and nothing will be left for the girl. My parents and Sister just analysed all this and came back to their chennai's house where it was decided that they will not marry their daughter to such a lalchi and dahej lobhi family jo ladki ko kuch samjh hi nhi rahein ar vo sb paisa apne lie maang rahein hai they just wanted money from us and kailaash's elder brother jeth (SI IN UP POLICE)made phone at our home then My Father Shri Ji said no to them for rista and asked them to return our money, shadi se pehle ye haal h to shadi k baad kya krenge

On 4th Dec 2015, At our chennai's home, kailaash with his Brother jeth and jeth, Father Shri father in law,Bhabi and one Cousion brother came to our house. My Mother, Sister and Father were totally against of this marriage and said that they do'nt want to ruin life of their daughter. His family convinced my family that we will not do bad with his daughter and will take all responsibility of your daughter bas ye rista nhi todo mujhe bi accha nhi lag raha tha hmare bi card chap gye the just for the family izzat i convinced my parents ki ye rista nhi todo and we said that we will do marriage as per our hasiyat.

On the day of saagai (6th Dec 2015) my brother in law's jeth and jeth, father in law

Shri father in law and husband kailaash , they all fighted with My family for the car ki car nhi aayi saagai pr ,his both brother jeth and jeth and father father in law insulted my family on the day of saagai Due to car not given to them on the day of sagaai and after that kailaash abused me over phone. kailaash and his family took away all furniture , jewellery, electric good , cash around 6 lac

and vo bi saaman jo sagaai pr ladki ko dia jaana tha vo bi apna bi ar hamara bi sb le gaye then when i came to know how kailaash and His Brother jeth and jeth insulted my family again then i refused to marry him and asked him to return all thing which was given by us in Sagaai. He and his mother phoned me and convinced me and said sorry for that.kailaash messaged me and said Sorry Yaar,Do'nt take such step, Do'nt take big step.. Hamara Jhagda chalta rahta h Sab sahi hoga tere saath Bada step ni le Saadi honi h Dahej ka matter ni h bilkul Thanda dimag rakh.

But due to family izzat and aage ka kya result hoga if i break this rista I married kailaash when they agreed on mine condition that mere saath vo kuch bi bura nhi karenge and mujhe sahi se rakhenge ek love and trust bna kr rakhenge ar mujhse kbi fight nhi krenge.

On 9th Dec 2015 , kailaash and his mother mother in law asked me where is 17 tole gold and taunted my family and on same night kailaash slaped me. My brother in law jeth called at my home and asking for money which was in my account and said that shadi mein kuch nhi dia.

On 11th Dec 2015 after pagfere Rasam , kailaash and his Mother both fighted with me and abused me and my family bahut buri trah chilla chilla kr,His mother abused and said ki meri family ne hume kuch nhi dia saadhi me ar unhone nangi ladki bhej di unke saath dhoka kr dia jhut bolkar saadi kr di mere ladke ke name pr gaadi nhi di , mere sarkaari ladke ko loot lia , kanjar ristedaar mile h hume and mere b�te ke name Gaadi kr (My parents gave Swift car on my name which kailaash and his family demanding on kailaash�s name).

i was shocked by seeing their reaction. After that i said i do'nt love money i need you only, will give you my money and will named my car on your name, after two or three days , we went to Goa , kailaash fighted with

me there over money and slaped me two or three times in goa so i asked him to not to fight with me and i will give all my money and car to you ,After coming back from Goa, 18th Dec 2015 he opened joint account in Axis bank in and asked me to deposit cheque of Rs 9 lac on the same day i asked him ek baar account open ho jaaye to deposit kr dungi mere itna hi kehte hi he forced me to deposit check at same time and abused me and showed me his anger.

And went away from there , leaving me alone and i was not aware of the route of house. I started to cry in bank when i found myself alone in bank and seeing my husband rude behaviour in bank i called him but he did not pick my phone

Then i took auto rickshaw and came alone to home he met me near to his house and went with him to his house. When my Inlaws came to know that i did not deposit amount in bank they started

To taunt me and my family and start to abuse. On same evening My mother in Law Mrs mother in law and husband kailaash beat me brutually and injured my face, lip and forehead and some unseen injuries on hand and foot they snatched my phone and locked

me in room i was hungry for two days then after three days i came back to my home in chennai (My parents were not aware of this incident)

On 26th Dec 2015 and i stayed at my home one month . Nobody came to take me and my husband threating my mother over phone that she should not come untill money is given to him and car and jo bi ATM h sb, During this period he continues called at my home and threat my mother that Tripti should not come here if she come here will break her leg.

On 26th Jan 2016, I went home with my mother Mrs Dhanwati and Sister and where it was discussed that will open joint account in bank and in some amount will puchase jewellery and i told My husband kailaash and his mother that i am not agree and i need some time and i stayed in . By seeing their reactioin that jo insaan mere saath saadi k pehle din se fight kr rahein h itna paisa lagaane k baad bi ar meri saas ne mere se sab le lia mera mangalsutr bi forcefully le lia and mere maagne pr bi unhone mujhe nhi dia to mein apna paisa kis wiswaas pr de du ar kya guarantee h ye mere se mera paisa lene k baad bi sahi se rahenge.

My husband posting was in mumbai. At end of Jan, My husband took my Car to mumbai without informing me i felt very bad about this and he hide things from me and In modinager there is a parlour Crazy cut there were some my due amount which i need to take from parlour i told this thing to only my husband kailaash but in my absence my mother in law mother in law brought Rs 2000 from parlour and did not tell me about this then i came to know from parlour about this i felt very sad that what is behaviour of my husband kailaash and mother in law and what they are doing with me there were no trust between me and he & his family.

My husband kailaash and His mother mother in law treats me like nothing and before and after marriage their effort is always like grab all things and money from me. My mother in law Mrs mother in law and husband kailaash never allowed me to adjust in my maternal home.My mother in law mother in law and Husband always want money from me. My husband kailaash stole my account detail from my phone. When I saw my account detail in his phone. I got shocked by seeing my account detail in his phone and asked him to delete then he started to abuse and fight with me.

My husband added my office colleague in his facebook profile inspite of they are unknown to him. He tried to message them for doing badnam to me (Once he did message to my colleague)

On 30 Jan 2016 I came to my parental home to take my clothes after asking my mother in law when kailaash came to know that I am coming back to his home and not depositing money in bank and not purchasing jwellary then my husband threat me that "i should not come to his house untill give money otherwise will do very bad with you that you can not think even" but i went there and stayed there

In february 2016, When my husband kailaash came back from mumbai. kailaash , his mother Mrs mother in law and Father in law Shri father in law they all fighted with me and abuse me and my family when i said no to them for giving money then my father in law asked me to go back to my parental home

Around 7th March 2016, My mother in law mother in law asked me Rs 2000 then i said i do'nt have money now will give you later after that she started to hide thing of house(Khaane ka samaan, toothpaste, Soap, room ki tubelight etc)

In 15 or 16 th march 2016, My mother in law started to abuse me and my family ki na hume sunder ladki mili na paisa ar mere sarkaari ladke ko loot lia mere ghar ko barbaad kr dia is daayan ne ye sunder nhi h isse acchi acchi ladkia ar crore k riste chodkr isse saadi ki mere bete ne

My Father in law Shri said to me that you will live here only when you will name money and gaadi on my son kailaash name and will do as kailaash wants otherwise go your mother home and my mother in law mother in law asked me to buy a new home with my own saving i said her how will i manage to do all this and why she is doing with me mere shadi ko abi time hi kitna hua h and i am not living with my husband i need your love and care and in exchange you are asking me just only money they always talk about me only money whether it was my mother in law mother in law , father in law Shri father in law or my husband kailaash and Brother in law jeth

I did not eat anything in that house for one month and mother in lawined hungry

In march 2016, In morning , My mother in law abused and taunted me and my family while i was taking bath, I ignored it went to my college (Shahdara )and while came back from my college shyam lal i found that it was locked from outside then i made phone to my Mother in law mother in law and Father in law father in law , they disconnected my call and

Did not pick call then i made phone to my husband more than 50 times but he abused me and kaha tu chennai jaa wapas yha nhi rehna varna tujhe zameen se gaayab kr denge. I was just crying there then i called my Jethani then she helped me to get unlocked the door at that time i was completely broken from inside by seeing their harsh and rude behaviour.

On 22nd March 2016, On the same day while coming back from office to home. My father in law abused and slapped me continously 5-6 times meri chunni aage se khichi ar mere saath badsaluki ki mera phone, Chunni ar bag cheen lia mein apne aapko bachane k lie bhaag kr padosi k yaha ghus gyi apne aapko bachane k lie waha pr police bi aa gyi thi isse pehle ki waha police aati My inlaws police me jakar mere against hi likhwa kr aa gye . Police talked my husband kailaash over phone and asked my husband to unlock the door then My husband replied to police to keep me in thana ar yaha kisi k bi ghar me reh legi.

When my parents came to know about this incident they came to where kailaash and his brother Varum and jeth said that we accept this ki galti ho gayi and will not repeat same in future

On 24th march 2016 in evening kailaash asked me to go out with him. He took me merut side at night where he cried at me so much and abused me threat me to kill ki tujhe marwa denge kisi ko pata bi nahi lagega. I was so frightened and he was just continously abusing me and my family and snatched my phone.It was sunsaan ilaaka meerut side.My husband kailaash and Mother in law mother in law and Father in law Shri father in law kept me hungry , ill treated , mentally and physically tortured me.

On 26 March 2016 , My husband kailaash and My mother in law mother in law forced me to go back my chennai parental home when i said no to them then again mother in law mother in law and husband kailaash abused me and my husband torned out my book and assignment. My mother in law and husband mentally and physically tortured me and jabardasti kr ke mujhe mere ghar bhej dia

Both Jeth jeth , jeth and husband came to leave me at my home where they again asked money from my parents. where my cousion brother were also there he said them jab se ladki ki shaadi hui h tum demand pr demand kre jaa raehin ho ar koi bi beti wala jo bi deta h vo apni beti ko deta h beti ko to tum maar peet rahein ho paiso ki khatir jb tum beti ko hi accept nhi kr rahein to koi kaise tum pr trust kr k tumhe paisa de de ladki tumhri h to uska paisa to khud ba khud tumhara h shaadi m trust hona hota h agar trust ho to maagne ki jroorat nhi hoti. Dahej k lie tum iske saath maarpit nhi kro.

when my mother asked them that when you will come to take back her then they said that will inform over phone

On 9th June 2016 , kailaash came to my home and took me for agra and aksed me money where is paisa for buying petrol and other cheeeze when i said i do'nt have money then he cried and fight with me

kailaash said to me ki agar girl hogi to usko abort kra denge. He wants boy. kailaash said ki tere saath maja ni aata tujhme you are not medically fit and he did forced sex.

My mother in law mother in law took forcefully mangalsutr and I asked her many times to return my Wedding gift and mangalsutr. She refused and fighted with me over this and said to that makaan kharid ar mere bete ke name apna paisa kr

During April to June 2016, My mother in law mother in law , Jeth jeth and husband kailaash they made call to my sister husband and instigate him about dowry and they always aksed him to talk to us so we can give them money , and Car on kailaash name. Then my sister husband often fighted with my sister and abused her and beat her brutually and demanded money for himself also.

My mother in law mother in law and husband kailaash and Jeth jeth are the cause of my sister life disturbance they always made call to them and did backbiting of us.

On 10th July 2016. My sister had been killed by her husband and in-laws for dowry.

and My Mother in law mother in law , Husband kailaash and Jeth jeth also doing same thing with me.

From 17 July to 8 September 2016. My husband did not make any single call and message to me and blocked my no. On 7th September 2016 I came to know from my one relative that he has been transferred to chennai. I made call to kailaash and asked him about this he irrelevant talked me and said ill words to me and my parents and my deceased sister and whenever i asked him to take me to the place where you are living he abused me and my family and asking money,Salary,Car,Saving from me and wants from me that I will buy my own house of my own money and he taunt me that Jhut bol kar shaadi kar di

I called his both brother jeth and jeth and my husband ki ab bahut time ho gaya h mujhe le jao to they talked about money and irrelevant talk and not saying any single word to take me back.

My mother made call to kailaash , kailaash abused my mother and said rakho apni ladki ko apne pass and tum log aao ar yaha aakr apna hisaab kr lo and he abused my deceased sister also and threat my mother that ek ladki ko to latakwa di h dusri ko bi latakwaungi and asking for money and my Salary and he asked me to buy house.

My mother made phone to my Jeth jeth and asked him to take me back then he asked us to come in with some people. My mother said ki mere saath itna bada hadsa ho gya tum log aa jao ristedaari k lihaaj se to meri mother se bi ulta bolne lage ar bolte ki hisaab kr lo hume tumhri ladki ko nhi rakhna

My husband kailaash threat me to kill and my family and said that he will rape my sister and used abusing language. He said tere se jo banta hai kr le and said to me that if you made any complanint against me and my family then I need to be ready for result and lagta h tu newspaper and whats apps nhi dekhti tujhe abi anjaam nhi pta ki tere saath kya hoga phir. Now he is not picking my call even.I want that he take me back

Please help me what can I do in such situation . i know that i should not talk to him before marriage i was aware that money is everything for him and he is marrying me only for money and he was not valueing me that's why i tried to back from his life but he blackmailed and pampered me that time and mein fas gayi :( but now i m married and don't know what should i do now to save this marriage i don't want to give him money cause i can not trust him please help

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