Legal Question in Family Law in India

1). in the 1st month of our marriage life i found her speaking to her old friend who was tried for her before marriage which i know (my wife told me this-she always tries to speak with me about him casually, i never insisted her because she may feel bad that i am doubting her). i excused for 1st time.

2). now again she doing the same for last 2 months when ever i got call waiting for long time and if i asks she says her mom.

3). last 2 months we got high bill for her number when i checked the bill i found its not her mother she is speaking to but some guy that to for long durations that to daily 4-5 times. i doubt the same guy.

4). And main thing is she is not good take caring of our 1 and half year old baby girl.

5). many times i told her to maintain healthy sourroundings and foods and baby accessories, for that i spent money for baby cleaners and all but she is not listening and even she is not feeding baby with proper diet. for 1 and half year baby she is feeding only milk and preparing special foods for baby.

6). she is speaking on this number long durations during morning hours and afternoon hours when she is supposed to feed baby, make baby sleep and bath & all activities. i dont know what she is take caring of baby when she is busy with other guy in phone when she actually spend time with baby.

7). she dont listen to me in any matters and she dont care my family members.

8). iam frustrated with her with all kind of negative things from her side and now this secret phone affair.

9). can i get divorce? if yes what proofs should i submit? should i give her settlement cash(bharanam in telugu) for divorce?

10). last but not leaset recently her elder brother (married and 2 kids) started affair with his friend wife and it made big issue in her native place, her younger brother married father's brother's daughter(means married his sister), her mother spaeks to some police officer(i found my self when her mother was in my home in the month of sep-2012) which was confirmed by my wife long back it self and her father got many affairs before our marriage.

iam just informing that each member of her family got same affairs background and this is because of their family sound financial status.


Asked on 6/27/13, 3:05 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Sudershan Goel India Law Offices of Sudershan Goel - Advocate

Gentleman, try to make adjustments with your wife without developing negative feelings towards her and her relatives. Divorce will also spoil life of your daughter. You may think of legal action ONLY if you are totally frustrated with her.

A note of caution: legal proceedings may be long drawn and very costly, with results uncertain. You may also have to provide for her maintenance as well as child support.

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Answered on 6/29/13, 4:59 am


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