Legal Question in Family Law in Pakistan

I am a 44 years old and have a 3 Kids. By professional I am a soft ware Engg. and working in Nishtar Medicall College Multan as a I.T Officer. My Husband is a Doctor. Since Marriage (2001) I am not find him a good husband. after marriage we just live 4 years together because of his family. He did not want to leave his marred brothers and sister those who create all the time problems. also they all have Psychological problem, for example clean hands all the times, don't touch any thing. don't meet the peoples, don't kiss your children. my sister in law push my husband that asked to your wife she will cooked food separately but when I will start she come to kitchen and says that my mother is saying that It is not good for my brother he will eat with us.In this sens my husband started eating with them, some times my husband told me that give me a glass of water, my sister in law very harry went and give him water. All the time she create problems and my husband take them her side. So I was so disturbed . they are 19 family members and living in a small house and enter fare all the time. I was not seen this type of people, my husband said that you are not my family they are my family, family means blood relation. his sister create problems for all the wife's of her brothers but all the time they takes her side. She took divorce before my marriage and have two children's. My husband's alder brother's wife leave home because of his sister, younger brother leave home with family and me also living alone with my three kids. My husband living with his family. all the relatives advice them that live with your family and leave your sister then my husband said that the people those told me that leave to sister and family they ate enemy.his family behavior is not good with us but he insist me to come my house for few hours. I feel that he is selfish to asked me for sex but he hurt my feelings also he disturb the feeling of my and my kids.He has no responsibilities for school and studies, how they are going to school.
so I am
The driver to provide pick and drop to school
I am doing all the household work like cooking washing and very things.
I am also doing a job
he also provide some money for every month and I spend my full income.
now I am much mentally disturb about him and not found any way and no body will come to solve this problem so he insult every body who give him good advice.

Asked on 4/17/14, 10:09 pm

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Adnan Bashir A B Choudry Law Firm

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Its a long story you narrated, the crux is that you want to live with your husband but separately. if that is your demand , you have every right to seek court's order in that regard. you can compel him to live in a separate house along with your kids.

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Answered on 4/18/14, 2:29 am

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