Legal Question in Family Law in India
Hello Everyone,
Just came office early after fight with Wife. My wife has low temper and she gets angry and start abusing me and my family on small small things like ration/outing/money. I even try to cool her down but still she gets more hyper. So atlast i have to leave the house and just reach some alcohol shop and get drunk thats it. Sometimes only 2-3 times in past after reaching home in night she again started the arguments and verbal abuse so i slapped her. She threaten me to file for domestic violence even now or then, my life has become so tense. I only ask her to take care of house thats it and keep calm and not provoke me but she never stops. 2-3 times a week we have a fight and this is going on since last 5 years. She calls me Coward/Impotent to just make me angry.
Now I have a 4 years old daughter, she is very nice and i can't see her life getting hampered day by day. Because in husband wife fight she is the one who only suffers.
WIFE PAST: She is from Mumbai and i met her through a matrimony Site. Her father is retired and has some medical issues. This is her Third marriage.Even she hided this fact from me about her 2nd short marriage. FIRST marriage she registered and not filled divorce and it happened before 6-7 years. She also had a miss-carriage at that time. I have her medical reports. SECOND marriage she did in her family pressure as she told me later. But that guy used to beat her so she left him too. Then i visited mumbai only to meet her but she came with me on same flight to Delhi and we stayed somwhere for around 1 month and later on got married in Temple but not registered yet.
a)I live in a rented house. I have no property at my name.
b)I belong to delhi and have a parental house in delhi only but don't live there due to her behaviour issues.
c) Father is a government employee and getting retired in december.
d) I am working in a MNC.
Please suggest what can i do. Because its getting worse day by day and affecting and infact affected lot of my professional growth.
Thank you for your valuable time.
Waiting for guidance.
1 Answer from Attorneys
1. You may consider taking her to psychiatrist or marriage consultant for advice.
2. Treat her like a patient and behave accordingly. She might be suffering from acute sense of insecurity after having lost two husbands before.
3. Try to find out small things that could make her happy.
4. Try not to give her a chance to be angry.
5. Increase your capacity to cope up with the situation through meditation / spiritual means. Start making joint visits to the nearest holy place like a temple, R. K. Mission Ashram, etc.
6. Since her first marriage has not been divorced as per law, you may consider asking her to start formal divorce process so that your child is not illegitimate.
Litigation is the last and most uncertain / expense solution.
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