Legal Question in Family Law in India

Im presently working in defence forces. posted at delhi. my self and my wife are only child of our parents. my wife went to my in-laws house chennai for giving birth to child in jul 2012. male child born in sept 2012. till date my wife refuses to come back to live with me. reasons stated are that she will not cook food for me, only servants work is cooking food. she will not sleep with me, she will not take responsibilities of house on her shoulders only servants should look after the house. she will not help me to run the house. this is not her house. it is my house and all things should be taken care of me. she will just sit and eat and not even wash her plate she ate. etc etc. i have always told her that go for work and send every money to your parents and v can live with my earnings. i dont even want even one rupee from u. u can take a house and keep u r parents near to my place of residence. my parents will stay with me and u r free to visit ur parents any time. she always says that i will not listen to you. i will listen only to my father. only my father is good person in this whole world. everyone else are worst people. i will do what ever my father says. who are u to question me. who the hell are u to say me to cook food. who the hell r u to tell me to take care of the house. my parents should not stay with me. but she will bring her parents. most important point is that child, since she has given birth to her son, she has 100% right on the child. i do not have any right on the child. her father and she will grow up the child and take care of the child. i should just stay aside and watch it. they dont invite me to their house. they dont pick up my call at all, infact they dont pick up anybodys call keep the mobile in silent mode and if at all once a while they pick up the call she says that she is taking care of her child dont ring up and disturb me and if ring up to her father, he also threatens that dont disturb my daughter. they have also threaten us that we will file dowry case against u. they have even threatened that they will send some gundas to kill me and my parents. they have also threatened that they will make my life miserable. many of our relatives, friends, their relatives and friends advised them spoke to them, we personally spoke to them but all are invain. they say that they will not listen to any one they will do what ever they feel like doing. she and her father has also told that we will complaint in the police station. go to court and file case against u and ur family. they are now saying me to come and stay with them in their house. i refused to and now she is blackmailing me for divorce custody of child will be with her since she has given birth to the child and i have no right on it. we are totally helpless. my parents are afaraid that all the laws favours only women the court will also turn down deaf ear towards husband. so they say that leave us and go and stay with them. u take care of ur family. she has many times threatened that she will file case in court, because of this my parents are afaraid, that their only sons life will be ruined. i am helpless. how can i throw away my parents and agree to all her conditions. what should i do now.

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