Legal Question in Family Law in India
It was shock to me while I got the divorce papers from my husband end. Well mine was love cum Arrange Marriage. In 2011...My husband showed his true character only after marriage. Hes north India I am am south. His mother is was always against me marry my husband. .she had a grudge in her mind even before marriage. My husband family is so orthodox that todays women will die in their home. My husband was very very absuive .violent. rash always beat me very much just cos of his family reasons as he used to abuse. My parents a lot being invoked by his mother and used to always fight with me beating. He never supported me in any means never communicated. Never shared what's going on in his heart mind.. then how how would I understand him. His mother dint like me working .wearing chudidar. Staying out of their home ( as we stayed a lanes next to their home) she wanted us to stay in their Kitchen Room. As its one BHK 20 yrs oldhome... if my husband would openly discuss any problems faced I would give my life for him but. ..even I never understood him in fights though I always forgave him for beating me or abusing me.. I was shocked that he kept record while I got angry and abused my Huby back. . One fine day my MIL took complete clothing of my husband and left me asked me to stay alone. So my parents intervend next day. But they were forcing me to stay in their Kitchen Room. Suddenly in rage my Huby brother raised hands on me but my mom came in between so we had to call police. The police still couldn't calm the situation. So still again my husband left me from there to his mother�s home. Later after 2-4 days as I was fed up with my husband beating n mental torcher and useless fighting taking MIL AS reason.i asked local police to counsel my husband ..they agreed and called husband & asked him to stay far from his family &my family so we took home far from his family. .. His mother was in vengeance to seperate us from then.. my husband never helped me in shifting. . Clearly understood he didn't want to go far.. but forcefully he came to stay with me ... From the day he he came. .it was like more hell than previous .as now he day in and out told me im black magician. ..he wasn't eating food but saying im not giving food. ..he bought spy camera. .he was recording my moves day in and out wantedly provoking so I abuse him etc...he kept recording of all this. ... I trusting him had nothing. ..he also typed msgs & sent to his number after I slept in night .. I always after fight I thought forget n forgive. ... I never kept grudges. .ad I really loved him.. but he with a revenge provoking fought.. n left me ..the day he left me he filed divorce. .... which shows it was planned. He packed his bag and went back to his mother�s home... he asked me to stay in my mothers Home. .suddenly after 2 month I get divorce papers...2 months I had begged him to come back but he never.. now he has become so adamant that he's spoiling my life badly just to take revenge and his mother thought him I did blackmagic ..which I swear I dnt know. .none in his home is educated. .. he keeps all calls recording video recording etc and day as proof s that I was absuive to him n his family. .... saying he will finish divorce in easy way. .... but I need just one more final chance in life ..as I still love my man though hes blaming me badly. ... as he's purely invoked by his mother and family members. ..he has also hid the fact that his father has 2 wives in same home..in anger I had given my hubby a written mail stating that low caste people do cheap things like he does to me by beating etc etc. ...hes kept this as a caste discrimination on me... he is not ready to sit and talk or forgive or even councelling .. how can we handle such a hard hearted man.. but I feel his only doing this as his family does want me. They can marry my husband with dowry to other girls from their caste. .. I love my husband very much but his just misundrstng me and taken wrong step....pls advice. ..
2 Answers from Attorneys
i am sorry to hear about your plight. if there is a divorce case you can ask the court to refer the matter for mediation.the problems are only piled up misunderstandings. you got to understand that the motherinlaw is the mother too. you cant uproot him from his family.you marry a family not a person and settling down takes time. you may contact me at 9312411481 for advice.
dear client file police complaint against husband and his family members under sec 498-a for dowry harassment. u can also file domeestic violence case for mental torture. for any legal help call me on 9422611385
ADV PRASAD PATIL
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