Legal Question in Family Law in India

Sir, need a legal and counseling advice on a marriage relationship.

I am from a lower middle class family and after lot of struggle got a job and landed up in MNC and was staying in Bangalore. I was earning average when my parents started showing girls for my marriage. After seeing 3 to 4 girls, finally got married to a girl from my native. This girl was educated like me. I was hoping that she would get a job as one persons salary is not sufficient to run a family. I also have to take care of my parents in my native financially as I am the only son. She was doing Phd at the time of marriage, so I suggested her to complete it and then get married. She never listened to me and always tried to dominate me even before my marriage. I clearly told her parents (my in-laws) that she should get a job after marriage and they agreed at that time. After one year, she got pregnant and I was not ready for it because after 1 year she was still jobless. She again didn't listened to me and we had the kid. During this period she use to abuse me and my parents all the time. I was not able to understand what am I missing or not doing. When I request her to study for Phd or job interview preparation, she never listened to me. Sometimes I move up to the terrace of the rent house I was staying and felt like jumping off. During daytime have to work in office and at night suffer. Had a lot of sleepless nights. Finally, after 2 years of marriage in Bangalore, I left my job and moved back to my native. I also had another reason to move back was my parents were not well and nobody to take care of them. For this quick decision, heard a lot from my in-laws. After reaching my native she (my wife) was behaving nicely for sometime. I got a job and even I was busy. Slowly, she started to have issues with my mom and she started to abuse my mom on her face. During these 3 years, she always use to threaten me that if I don't listen to her she would divorce me and their family had good lawyers and they will win and harass me and my family a lot. From last 1 month onward she was not letting me touch her and suggesting me to go to some other lady. 3 years of marriage over still Phd not completed nor any job for her even in our native place.

Sir, my humble query to you is that am I violating any law for which I was punished like this for last 3 years?

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