Legal Question in Family Law in India

Sir I got married in Jan 2013.After marriage problem started within the family she is adament and not even bother to hear any word or advice from me and my mother which will be good to her.There is always a clash between my mother and her along with me .Her motive is that I will always listen to her BT she will not.If I dare to go anything against her she will give me a threat to teach me a good lesson by complaining to police to have a mental torture on her from our side . She also do not listen to her parents also .What she will do is always right and I also have cooperate with her.If I told her that I will not tolerate this and will not let her enter my house she will always threat me to go to police and send me and my mother to jail.She also told me that she will go out for giving tutiuon to students and will not stay in the house to look after my family.I took a strong step few months ago BT she overlook those steps to stay in the house and move out early at 9am while return at 10 pm .If I ask where she was being all the time she told me that she i s not bound to give any answer though her teaching time is hardly 4hrs. I found out that she often bunk classes and when I call she told me she is teaching and not o disturb. I follow her few days BT I could not find any trace . I hire detectives they told me that it is difficult for them to follow because she is very foxy in nature and always looking behind that wheat her anyone is following her not. They also gave me report that while she is saying that she teaching in a particular house she was not present there and she eventually bunk the class.Always she will talk about my family that hey are bad etc etc in front of everyone now gradually it is become intolerable.Another thing when I have got a survelliance on her mobile a no of her ex boyfriend was found .after asking her she tempered on me and told me that it was her previous no given by her ex and she gave that to her friend long time ago .When I pressurise her she told me that if I think that she had a relation with her old one she had nothing to do with that because as I think so .while getting anger on her she told me shoutedly that she love her and no one could do anything about it. Later when I ask her again she told me he told a lie as she was in anger at that time.Now I move along with her BT while he was on the road she was always looking for someone in bile in every corner of the road again while asking she denied and shouted at me on the road even beat me twice time in my room after returning. When I drink I have to take her permission BT while she drinks she don't even bother to tell and when I got angry on her she shows mW attitude and told me that I will again make you suffer like that of what happens few months ago .what should I do


Asked on 12/13/13, 2:45 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

If you want to continue with the marriage both of you need counselling. The trust faith and love the key words of a marriage seem to be missing. Dont expect your wife to change overnight accept her and give her time and space. Secondly why threaten her to leave the house?? she has left her parents house to be with you make her feel wanted.We all have different temparaments and no one is right or wrong.If you have an inclination and patience the marriage may survive. But if you still want to seperate you can file a petition for divorce on the ground of cruelty. But that can be filed only after Jan14. For further queries call 9312411481.

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Answered on 12/13/13, 6:08 pm


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