Legal Question in Family Law in India
HELLO SIR,
I AM 28 YEARS OLD AND I AM FACING SOME TERRIBLE PROBLEMS FROM MY FUTURE IN LAWS AND THERE RELATIVES.
I was in a relationship with a girl since 2009. After 3 years in January 2012 our parents met, my mother saw the photo of the girl but never met her personally. Everything was fine since may 2013. In May 2013 my parents went to there place and saw that the girl is not a god mach for me in terms of appearance and looks as compared to me, so after a few days my mother refused on phone saying that the match is not perfect. A few days later the girl's father came to my place with 2 more of there friends to talk, so my mother again told the same reason to them. At that time she was bit strict and harsh as the girl's parents never asked to visit there place to meet the girl and now they were forcing us to marry her. Now 2 days back her father came again with the girl's elder brother and a lady. On that day they started shouting on my parents and me and started giving threat to me and my parents saying that they will either kill me or my parents, or will take us to the court if the girl will do some harm to her. They also said that we are doing this just for dowry, but this is not a case at all because my parents never asked for it and they are against dowry and will never take anything for them. They have given us a weeks time to think and tell. We have no problem in doing marriage, but now i am very doubtful and frightened after seeing all this and i am not able to trust them in future. Sir, we are in great trouble, my parents are old and above 65 and i am there only child.please advice me what should i do. And if we agree for marriage what all precautionary measures should we take before marriage
1 Answer from Attorneys
marriage is all about love and adjustment. you mother loves you and wants an attractive wife for you. But you need a woman who loves you and understands you and is compatible. Please be the man. understand the dilema of the girls parents.if you love the girl dont letgo of the relationship.talk to her voice your doubts and discuss it with her. The final decesion is yours. all about trust understanding and compatiblity and not looks.gud luck. for further query call 9312411481.