Legal Question in Family Law in India
It is not even a year i got married in the month of feb'13. after marriage due to no good days, in may month we are living together as i work in hyderabad and she too. my native place is other. last month (10 Oct'13) from 10th she is with her parents. I am facing a problem with my wife and her parents. since 1 month she was with her parents and two times with some Big people Panchayat has done and they said the judgement. Even after that, her parents were not satisfied and now they are trying to pull me back to another sitting. Their main aim is to separate from my parents. So that they can do what ever they wants and more over they are threatening me that will file 498(a) DV on me and my family members. from very beginning of married life (first night) she started saying that how you knew all these, whenever we meet. every time she is in favor of their parents and argues with me and makes to feel to beat her. For this, her aunty is motivating her family to file 498 (a) on grounds of harassment.
1. She is now not with me from Oct 10th.
2. Never lived with my parents at my native. Hardly 2/3 days spent with my family.
3. I rented a house that which will be near to her work and that costs me 2hrs TO & FRO for my ofz, even though i am trying to be good at her.
4. Once with her words, we took my to hospital for a surgery with my money. after this somehow my parents adjusted the same amount of money in other ways.
5.every silly/simple issues she says at her parents which happens with me or my parents.
6.first panchayt sitting i raised a point that with broad mind i excused her for something. for this, she said im not talking with that person after mother-in-law operation, because my husband informed the person that my mom is not interested seeing you at my son's house. she said this statement and then if you want to know whether im talking to the person (so called her brother without any blood relation, js know to their family since 6 years and we do tie rakhi, he helped me in my job) mine is post paid bill which my husband will receive it through email and he can check. recently i checked last two month bill - it clearly showing she spoke to him number of times.
how can i pretend her and her family or can i go on filing a case instead of they putting a case on me/family. again now they are calling us to panchayt for talks and they are very much cunningly wants me to separate from my parents. what is the point i can strongly say to them and what can i do if they won't listen to me.
Please could you suggest me something to get rid of this. I am really suffering a lot with all the tension and more my parents are too.
1 Answer from Attorneys
from the given facts I am unable to comprehend the problem. Do you have a problem staying with your wife?? Is she unhappy with you and wants to call off the marriage?? or is it initial adjustment problems the marriage is facing?? Why dont you meet your wife and try to sort out the issues directly with her. What case do you want to file against her??? for further clarifications you can call me at 9312411481