Legal Question in Family Law in Alabama
child support
My husband has a son who has been living with us for 5 years now, He does not communicate with his mother and we never went to court to change over the court order to give us custody. The child support comes out of my husband's check and goes to her for support of the child, sometimes she sends it to us sometimes she keeps it. We do not want anything from her but do want to get the support stopped from coming out of his check, We have seen an attorney but they want $1500.00 upfront and we do not have it and she is willing to sign paper sstopping it. What can we do?And how much will it cost?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: child support
What needs to be done is a Petition to Modify needs to filed stating the simple facts of the situation,
along with a signed Agreement, Answer and Waiver, Statement of NonRepresented
Defendant/Plaintiff (use original heading from divorce), and the various Child Support Forms, plus
a proposed Order. This is assuming the ex-wife will agree and sign the necessary paperwork.
The Judge should grant your request, there is one sticky point though, most Judges will require the
Mother to now pay child support to the father. While it can be waived, there must be a satisfactory
explanation submitted to the Judge, and generally agreement between the parties and/or simple
hardship won�t do.
If the child has been living with you for 5 years and you can prove it (school records, testimony, etc.)
my advice is to go ahead and file a Petition to Modify and go for it, including both custody and child
support. If you submit a Motion for temporary custody with supporting Affidavits along with it
there should be nothing the ex-wife can do. The ex-wife should not be receiving child support and
your husband should. The fee quoted you seems excessive for what should be a fairly simple matter.
We would normally, based upon what you are saying, charge substantially less than that as this
should take beneath 5 and 7 hours of attorney time plus court costs to resolve. I understand your
reluctance in doing this, but custody and support remains with the Ex-wife until you change it and
generally I do not believe you wish to have the threat of a custody dispute hanging over your head
and the continued financial hardship that this is causing you.
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