Legal Question in Family Law in Arizona
Abandonment and Divorce
I have a question with abandonment and divorce. I have been told since April that my wife wants a divorce. It is starting to get very hard to stay in the house with her. I would be in contact with my kids and would see them during the week and weekends. I have been hearing from some people that if I leave she could get me on abandonment which would not allow me to see my kids. I am not emotionally strong to stay in the house anymore especially with the holidays coming up. So what is the law state and how would they treat this if I decided to go live with my brother since she dont want to be married anymore and does not want to play house.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Abandonment and Divorce
Sorry to hear about what you are having to deal with and have dealt with for so long. Divorce does not sound like it would be the death sentence that you are expecting. In fact, in my experience, many people find that divorce gives them far more freedom than living in an unhappy marriage did. Abandonment is not something that you should fear unless you are planning on completely dropping out of the picture for your kids. Abandonment is a legal term that relates to termination of parental rights and requires absolutely no contact for six months or more. In filing for divorce, you are still entitled to parenting time with your kids. Often the primary caretaker will attempt to withhold the kids from the other parent. If you foresee this as a possibility, you should request a temporary orders hearing and temporary orders when you file for divorce. That will ensure that you have some court-ordered parenting time until the divorce is final. Honestly, the divorce process can be difficult to navigate and litigate when you have kids and hiring an attorney can help. Some people are comfortable doing it alone but, in my opinion, if it is a contested matter, a professional is well worth the cost.
Contact me if you would like to discuss you case in greater detail. I offer payment plans and have an office in Gilbert and Mesa. If that's too far, I'd be happy to meet you somewhere more convenient.