Legal Question in Family Law in Arizona
infidelity and custody
I was married on may 6 2001. My daughter was born feb. 21 1998. My wife committed adultery on oct. 12 2001. First of all, can my marriage be annulled? If I have to file for divorce, who gets custody? since I live in oregon and she lives in AZ. I left because I did'nt want to do anything stupid. I was in a state of emotional turmoil and rage. She has had her boyfriend living in our house since then. She also has a pcs2 on her criminal record. Her ex-husband just died, so I don't want to ''stick it to her'', but I need to know what to do to cover my butt where my daughter is concerned. Would moving back to AZ be a good idea? or would it be best to do this from oregon? No custody arrangements have been established. I am planning on picking my daughter up for a visit in april. Thanx
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: infidelity and custody
Your marriage MAY be annulled your Wife also agrees. However, given the amount of time that has passed, even an annulment by consent might be converted to a Dissolution by the Court. If she would not agree, I would have to know more, but my gut instinct would be that an annulment would be difficult.
As far as who gets custody, I would again have to know quite a bit more. Ultimately, the Court must look after the child's best interests. Thus, whoever is better able to care for the child's best interests should receive primary custody.
Whether you should relocate really depends on which location provides you your strongest arguments re: best interests of the child.
I can explain the issues and procedures better by phone or in person. There is too much to cover via e'mail (and I am not the greatest typist). We offer free 1/2 hour consultations, in which we can discuss the matter in more detail.
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Re: infidelity and custody
Assuming the child has resided in AZ for 6 months, that's where you'll have to file. Annulment is usually for those situations where a marriage is very, very brief and the parties did not consummate the marriage through sexual relations. I'm not advising about AZ law because I don't know whether or not annulment is available for you. I also don't understand why you want annulment instead of divorce. There's really no practical difference. A custody battle can get expensive and it's too complicated to give you any advice without knowing a whole lot more. Good luck to you.