Legal Question in Family Law in Arizona
Hi~ I have just recently been awarded sole legal and sole physical custody of my six year old son. Mother was allotted 3 out of 4 weekends a month of unsupervised visits. However, since the judge's decision a month ago, mother has become extremely violent and suicidal. She has made threats to kill not only herself, but her family members, and myself. She has been very abusive to her dog-punching him closed fisted. She has also put my son in some seriously dangerous positions. My question is what can I do now at this point? I don't feel that my son is safe while in her care, but I don't dare go against the order of the court with letting her have her time with him. I'm at a loss of what to do next.
4 Answers from Attorneys
You are obligated to comply with the court orders; however, you can ask the court to modify the orders to require supervision (and some sort of evaluation for Mother) if there has been some change in circumstances that you can articulate to the judge. Further, if you believe your child may be in imminent danger of some sort of irreparable harm or injury, you may be able to request those new orders on an "emergency" basis. If you are considering doing this, you should act sooner rather than later; if you wait to file an "emergency" action, then the court may believe that it is not a high priority to you. The forms to file the action are available at the Maricopa County Superior Court website (www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov, self-service center, forms, family law forms), but it is a fairly complicated process, so you should consult with an attorney as well.
This situation should be taken very seriously. She may in fact be a severe danger not only to herself but to others. It is very worrisome that she has endangered your son and also an animal in the household - this is a sign of someone who is in extreme mental distress and if they are abusive to animals they likely will become abusive to humans or already are. Take immediate action to remedy things. Ask the court for an emergency modification of the child custody/visitation involving her, and see if there is any way that you can get her some mental health assistance. She may be resistant, but if you explain it will help ensure she can keep seeing her son, keep her pet, etc., she may come around. Best of luck!
As a follow up to what both of the previous lawyers said, I would strongly suggest you take action by filing an emergency order to have supervised or even no parenting time at this point. If you can show what you state in your question, the court is likely to grant it. I believe that having a lawyer is more helpful sometimes but with those facts, assuming you can prove them in some form, you should be able to accomplish it without a lawyer. You will likely want someone to assist you with any hearing you might have.
Good luck
Regards
Ronee Korbin Steiner
You can, and should, file a Petition for Emergency Modification, and perhaps an Order of Protection.
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