Legal Question in Family Law in Arkansas

Sexual Abuse against Grandaughter

My daughters child has been sexually abused by her stepfather since she was six and we have just found out about this in June. My daughter turned him in to the state and he is in jail.

I have actually more then one question so I don't know if you will answer this. I hope so as I don't know where to turn. Her husband had a house before they were married and other bills. She is being told she will have to pay these bills, is this true?

He had a business in her home, the home is in her name only and was owned by her before she married her. They are telling her that they will take the house, can they take her house for taxes owed on the state taxes on the business? She has three children and he was her soul support.

She wants a divorce and has been told that it will cost her $1000.00 plus his legal fees and that she can't get a divorce until he is sentenced but there counselor (daughters & grandaughters)says that she should get one which she wants. Is this true?

I would like to go into more details but don't want to run out of space. She really needs advice and cannot pay for it and doesn't know where to turn. I hope someone out there can help.


Asked on 10/20/99, 5:47 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Carolyn J. Stevens CJ Stevens|Law

Re: Sexual Abuse against Grandaughter

Your state�s laws might differ from mine, and I don�t know enough facts to give specific advice.

Also, I had to edit a long response to fit this format, so please excuse the abrupt tone.

You say �she is being told� and �they�re telling her.� If They aren�t attorneys, They�re probably

telling war stories the same way we tell scary pregnancy stories to the first timer. Daughter

should quit listening. If They is an attorney, Daughter can get a second opinion.

Generally, the person who brought a debt or an asset into the marriage leaves with it. In an

�equitable distribution� state, the court can order a different distribution if Daughter�s facts

support her argument that equity demands a different distribution -- father�s in jail and can�t support the kids, he was the sole source of income, Daughter could sell his house, use the

proceeds to pay off the mortgage on her house where the kids live, she wouldn�t need AFDC and

food stamps. You get the gist.

Generally, creditor can�t hold wife liable for husband�s premarital debt unless wife agreed to be

jointly liable -- e.g., her name on his credit card, for instance. The court could order her to pay them, but I don�t think that will happen.

If Daughter wants a divorce, she can probably get one before husband is sentenced. But she can�t really propose a property division until he�s sentenced because the sentence affects husband�s ability to support the children.

Don�t be penny wise but pound foolish. She could get a divorce for only $250, then spend $2,000 later to fix mistakes. Ask relatives to chip in; call it this year�s Christmas present. Call the state bar referral service for names of family law practitioners. Call the local Legal Services Corporation office; if they can�t take the case, they might give her names of attorneys who do pro bono work.

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Answered on 10/23/99, 3:44 pm


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