Legal Question in Intellectual Property in Arkansas

Absolutely not!!!

Well, it is not that simple. Parents wield great influence and control. Legally you could tell them where to go, but at 15 you probably have no independent source of income, food, shelter, etc. Yours is the reverse of the more common conflict where the teenage mother wants an abortion and the parents, especially if religious, do not want their grandchild aborted. You probably know that at 15 you may not be ready to give proper care to a new baby and your parents help may be really important for you. Ask yourself if there is a responsible father in the picture, as if not that handicaps the new baby's future potential. There are several options, adoption coming to my mind first, abortion second, if done in a professional clinic where it is safe (In Illinois where I practice parental notification is not required). Also check into welfare agencies and pro-life organizations as they often have assistance available for very young mothers who want to avoid abortion and keep their baby. Only you know if you are ready to suspend your teenage years for motherhood. Usually that is a mistake. It is a life-changing event and generally puts a young girl behind the eight ball for life, but if you can make it without losing your future, more power to you. I think parents are more often right than wrong, so listen to their advice, consider it carefully, and then make your own decision and work hard to make it the right one. I think your parents will stand by you once to make your decision if you are strong and sure in it.

Mr. Burdick is correct -- it is not that simple. You can make your own decision regarding the pregnancy, but there are life-long implications. You must choose carefully - keep the baby, adoption, abortion - the decision will stick with you and that fetus for the rest of your lives.

I am pro choice. I cried long and hard over having one abortion when I was 21 because I wanted to go to college, and a baby was not in my plan. I still think about it. It is not an easy decision to make. There are many families who may want to adopt your baby, if you are willing to have the baby, so maybe that is a solution. It is also possible to have your baby and make a life for yourself. You have to search your soul for a minute and determine what you want out of life and what you are willing to do to get it.

If you have your baby, your parents cannot take him/her from you. Your baby and your body are your decision. The Supreme Court says so! But, putting a roof over your heads and food in your stomachs is quite a different matter, and it would be hard for anyone at the age of 15.

If you just need someone to talk to, you can call me any time at 727-417-1383. I will listen to you and try to provide an objective opinion.

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