Legal Question in Bankruptcy in California

I Need Help!

I have been married for 10 yrs., in this time my husband has been more out of work than in. Luckily we managed to buy a home together. But now were up to our necks in credit card bills and can hardly pay our mortgage payment. We have refinanced 3 times and are trying to do it a 4th time. Which will probably take all our equity we had in the house and only pay off 1 of our credit cards. My husband has been on disability since last Sept. and will be on it for another 6 mos. My question is at this point I would rather divorce him and sell the house and split the bills. Do you think I should do this before we refinance again? He doesn't want a divorce because I've made it too easy for him all these yrs. plus he's an alcoholic which is the big reason I want a divorce. I don't want to go down in flames with him.


Asked on 3/16/07, 11:53 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

Amy Kleinpeter Clark Kleinpeter Law

Re: I Need Help!

It sounds like you are making a lot of major decisions at once, which is always a stressful time.

Before refinancing the house, talk to a realtor about what the selling price of the house would be in the current market. You do not want to refinance for over that amount as that will just bring more problems. In general, refinancing a house to pay off cards is only advisable if you are not going to use the cards again. Otherwise, you double your debt instead of reduce it.

You put this question in the bankruptcy law section but did not ask about bankruptcy -- is it something you are considering? If so, it is much better to file for bankruptcy, either separately or with your husband, before your divorce is finalized. That way you will leave your marriage on your own two feet, but not with a load of debt. If you get divorced first, the debt may not be dischargeable in bankruptcy.

Best of luck to you as you make these difficult decisions. Many bankruptcy attorneys offer free consultations so that may be something you could take advantage of in gathering information for your decision.

One last note of advice -- avoid debt counselors or people who will fix your credit for a fee. They are often scammers.

-- Amy Kleinpeter

http://www.amykleinpeter.com

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Answered on 3/16/07, 12:08 pm
Robert F. Cohen Law Office of Robert F. Cohen

Re: I Need Help!

Depending on the amount of equity you have in the house, it might make sense to file for Ch. 7 BK. There are issues, of course, such as when you last used your credit cards, how far in arrears you are on your mortgage (i.e. are you in foreclosure), etc., your own income level, etc. It may not help with your husband's personal issues, though.

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Answered on 3/16/07, 12:11 pm
Amy Ghosh Law Offices of Amy Ghosh

Re: I Need Help!

Whether you want to get divorced or not has to be your personal decision. No attorney can or ahould advise you on that. As to BK, please keep in mind...if you do not have much equity..trustee will abandon the house and you can still sell the house with the court's permission.

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Answered on 3/16/07, 12:44 pm


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