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False Abuse Allegatioins - Family Law

I am currently going through a divorce.Our children have been seeking individual counseling for 4 years.Last year, after my visitation my daughter admitted to her therapist that she was sexually abused.My ex and her attorney tried to file for a DV Protective order, the judge denied it, because I had no contact with my children at that time. Since then I have been consumed in the California Judicial system, ordered to go to parenting class, mediation w/ spouse, individual counseling, and now, conjoined therapy with my children.During the conjoined therapy,my daughter admitted that the allegations were false and nothing of the sort happened.At the beginning of counseling, my ex allowed me a Saturday visit to take my kids to the movies and pizza, w/out her attorneys knowledge, then the following weekend the kids wanted to visit me at my house and she agreed to let them come down, unknown to the attorneys and conjoined therapist. The therapist had drafted a letter for the court recommending adequate visitation and accusations were false.

I am due for another visit to court soon.What recourse can I take? Can I file a criminal Slander/Defamation lawsuit against their mother? Which way do Cal courts rule in cases like these Pro dad?


Asked on 9/18/08, 6:56 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Edward Hoffman Law Offices of Edward A. Hoffman

Re: False Abuse Allegatioins - Family Law

There is no such thing as criminal slander or defamation. (Note that slander is a particular variety of defamation and not a separate concept.) Such wrongs are normally addressed via civil lawsuits, but statements in court filings cannot form the basis of a civil defamation claim. You may have no remedy.

Moreover, true statements cannot be defamatory. If your ex and her lawyers said only that the daughter had said (or, in your words, "admitted") that she was abused, then their statements were true and could not be deemed defamatory. Even if the court papers said the accusations were true those statements were likely reasonable based upon the available evidence.

Even assuming that the daughter's original statement to the therapist was false, that still would not support a defamation claim against her mother. For one thing, her mother isn't the one who made the statement. Another problem is that, like statements made in court papers, statements made within the patient/therapist relationship are privileged and can't form the basis of such a suit.

Unless you can show that opposing counsel (or, perhaps, your ex) caused your daughter to make this accusation *and* knew at the time that it wasn't true, I don't think you can even get the court to impose sanctions.

Finally, the fact that your daughter changed her story and persuaded the therapist that the original version was untrue does not mean the judge will see things the same way. He/she may believe your daughter told the truth the first time and lied the second, as children (and adults) sometimes do when they think a lie will protect a loved one.

Sorry I can't be more encouraging.

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Answered on 9/18/08, 7:24 pm


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