Legal Question in Family Law in California
24 year marriage to dentist
I have been married for 24 years. My husband is a dentist. I helped put him through dental school and have been a housewife raising our 17 year old son for the past 17 years.
I am suspicious for the past 12 years that my husband has been having an affair. My husband refuses to discuss the possibility of us getting a divorce. I have no control, idea or any knowledge of our financial networth. He gives me money...I do not even have a checking account that I am allowed to use without his permission. He has complete control over all of our finances, I do not even see a tax return.
I would like information on my rights, in case I proceed obtaining a divorce. What financially speaking would I be entitled to if we were to get a divorce. I have not been in the work place for almost 18 years and am very concerned.
I do not even know how much money my husband makes or what his practice is worth. I think he hides what he is truly making from me.
Thanks for any help.
--name removed--
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: 24 year marriage to dentist
Likely, half of all. He would have to open all to see. Contact attorney to discuss. Most will meet initial consult with no charge.
Re: 24 year marriage to dentist
You will be entitled to spousal support to maintain your current standard of living until it is no longer needed, one half of all the marital assets including his business assets. You will be taken care of. Call me directly at (619) 222-3504.
Reply: 24 year marriage to dentist
In a general sense, when you file for divorce your husband will have to make a full and complete disclosure to you of all assets and debts, including giving you copies of bank statements stock accounts, etc. Your joint income tax return may provide some information for you as well. Information is powerful and you are entitled to have all information relative to your assets and debts. California is a no fault divorce state, and we are a community property state. All assets acquired during the marriage except for inheritance and gift to one of you are presumed to be community property.
For a specific opinion regarding your individual circumstances, I suggest that you consult with an experienced family law lawyer. Experience is not expensive, it's priceless!
You will find some valuable information on various California family law issues by visiting my web site.
Good luck to you!
Brian Levy, Esq.
www.calattorney.com
Re: 24 year marriage to dentist
Since he has control of all the assets the court should order him to pay your attorney fees, including a retainer to allow you to retain an attorney.
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