Legal Question in Family Law in California
My brother's wife recently moved out and took custody of his two children, aged 14 and 10. She has told the children not to tell my brother, their dad, the address at which they now live or she will give them a hard time (threatened them). My brother is currently unemployed, but has been interviewing actively (unemployed for about six months so far due to a layoff). My brother had been paying the $2,000/month rent on the house they have been living in for over ten years. Does he have legal recourse to get custody, even partiallly, of his kids? Did his wife break the law by "kidnapping" the children? Many thanks. This is in Southern California.
1 Answer from Attorneys
The wife did not break any law. Without knowing all the details about the family situation and the break-up, I can't say whether or not your brother would have problems getting custody. Being unemployed should not be a barrier to him getting custody at all. The wife's conduct in keeping the children from their father will cut against her unless there is some reason that is in the best interests of the children for doing so (domestic violence cases being an example but not the only basis). Some form of joint custody and shared visitation times is highly favored. Sole custody with no contact with either parent is reserved for abandonment and unfit parent situations, such as domestic violence, mental illness, incarceration, etc. Otherwise a transition from married parents to unmarried but involved and cooperative parents is highly favored by the courts and Family Court Services. Being the parent who shows that he wants what is best for his kids, not to punish his wife, and wants the kids to have a solid relationship with both parents with frequent and regular time with both, will go a long way toward getting a favorable custodial arrangement.