Legal Question in Family Law in California

Re: child custody

It is not unusual for a 4 year old to be upset at the exchange between parents and psychologist tell us it is not an indication that they would prefer one parent over another. Rather, it is a separation axiety or fear that they are losing a parent. The exchange between two parents is a very stressful time for a child. The easiest remedy, for the child, is that the exchange be at the end of pre-school, church or some activity where both parents are not present at the same time. Good Luck, Pat McCrary

Re: child custody

Don't try to go for full custody unless there's a really good reason for it. A child crying during the "exchange" is not good enough reason to go for custody.

Something important to keep in mind: The very act of going for custody when there is no justification can indicate to the court that you are the parent least likely to ensure an ongoing relationship between the child and the other parent. It could back-fire on you.