Legal Question in Family Law in California

child custody

My ex and I son is12yrs.We both have jointcustody. My son said he want to live with me.His dad is married with 3 girls.They live in a 3 bedrm home. The girls share a rm together.my son has his own room.He says he has no privacy.I'm more involved in my sons school.I have had him in private for 6 yrs now,and now and then his dad will help out with expenses.I take son to all docs,dentist eye appts. his dad has him enrolled in baseball,and lets me know of schedules a day before which conflicts with my wk with my son.So if we have plans it has to be rearranged.His dad will pick him up on my wk 4 times a wk for practice and games and keep him out till 10p.m.he doesn't care about his school,my son sometimes comes home and stays up till midnt to finish projects.If he tells his Dad about he has alot of homework,his dad will get mad and say what you don't want to play baseball? so our son is scared to tell his dad anything.His report card was one c.his dad flipped.What do you expect when you push your child to hard for sports.Its summer,he has him in all stars and it is conflicting with our summer vacation.his dad got mad.where i live in Riv I heard judges cater more to men.ANy suggest on modifying and winning this case?


Asked on 7/07/03, 12:46 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

H.M. Torrey The Law Offices of H.M. Torrey

Re: child custody

family law courts "presumably" operate under the theory of "the best interests of the child" at issue. if you feel strongly that your child is not receiving such, you definitely should retain legal counsel to help you set up an OSC hearing to modify and/or amend the current child custody order to reflect what is in actuality in the best interest of your child. if you would like further assistance in this matter, feel free to email my office directly.

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Answered on 7/07/03, 3:16 pm
OCEAN BEACH ASSOCIATES OCEAN BEACH ASSOCIATES

Re: child custody

I have won this precise battle before; sports should not be scheduled that interfere with your time. Don't be pressured, get what you deserve, call me directly at (619) 222-3504.

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Answered on 7/07/03, 6:07 pm
Brian Levy, Esq. Law Office of Brian Don Levy

Reply: child custody

The legal issue is the "best interests of the child". I suggest that you consult with an experienced family law lawyer. Experience is not expensive, it's priceless!

You will find some valuable information on various family law issues at my web site.

Good luck to you!

Brian Levy, Esq.

www.calattorney.net

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Answered on 7/07/03, 12:59 pm


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