Legal Question in Family Law in California

Child Custody/Parenting Question

I have a mediation agreement with my ex-husband. My current husband and he do not get along. My ex-husband has asked to meet my current husband to ''work out thier differences'' for the betterment of our son. Legally, if they are going to discuss anything having to do with the parenting of our child, don't I need to be present? I have a bad feeling that he is trying to find a way to take custody away from me because he is still bitter about our divorce.


Asked on 2/17/09, 4:21 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Kendra Thomas Law Offices of Thomas & Associates

Re: Child Custody/Parenting Question

There is no legal requirement that you be present, but it may be a good idea for the two of them to not be alone if they do not get along. Additionally, if there is the potential a fight could break out, it may be best for them to meet in public. Many times a public meeting will prevent parties from raising their voices or escalating an argument to an improper level.

You also want to keep in mind that anything you or your husband say may be able to be used against you with regard to the custody of your son.

Please let us know if you need additional information.

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Answered on 2/17/09, 8:35 pm
Jeffrey Gerber Law Office of R. Jeffrey Gerber

Re: Child Custody/Parenting Question

My response to your ex is to seek counseling to deal with the situation. Putting these two together could be disastrous.

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Answered on 2/18/09, 12:10 pm


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