Legal Question in Family Law in California

custody and choice of schooling

I am the custodial parent. I have the

kids 26 days (including all school

days) and dad has them 4 days per

month (2 weekends). Dad has not

participated in any school activities,

including parent-teacher conferences

or my son--name removed--IEP (mild

learning disability) meetings. I would

like to move them into a hybrid

homeschool program offered by our

district that uses state-standard

curriculum and is monitored and

taught by certified district teachers.

The principal is also the district

Special Education director. I feel that

the kids would benefit from the

specialized attention, and emphasis

on independent learning. They would

still be on campus 3 days a week.

Their father has said he will not allow

it, and that I have to have his

permission. Our child custody

arrangement is joint-legal custody

regarding medical and education, but

he has not ever exercised this right

in 5 years. Is he legally able to

dictate their schooling?


Asked on 7/14/09, 9:39 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

PATRICK MCCRARY PATRICK MCCRARY

Re: custody and choice of schooling

Since you have joint legal custody it takes an agreement from both of you to make the change. If you cannot agree then the court will make the decision. You can file a motion to ask the court to make a decision where your child will go to schooling. Since dad hasn't been involved in the schooling and IEP, you certainly have an advantage. You should get a written recommendation of the IEP or teachers. You should also have an attorney and file immediately since your hearing will not be until late August. Good Luck, Pat McCrary

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Answered on 7/15/09, 11:12 am


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