Legal Question in Family Law in California
divorce..
Divorce wrapping up.
Actually the court says we are.
I have agoraphobia and panic
attacks bad. So when I had to
go to court I had to pay
my Therapist to help get me
there it's bad. I am on
medication and going to
Physiologist so he and his
lawyers are quite a where of
this. And yet when i am not
fast enough to go have
something signed( some other
place besides my home).
Then the threats come '' I'll
have to take you to court''
''You'll have to pay half ''
He knows I have no money to
do that, and I have asked him
to stop.
I told him you guys are like
blackmailing me with the two
things, my panic attacks and
agoraphobia and knowing I
have no money to make me do
something for 30 years had,
and under a Doctors care for it.
Can I have someone send them
a big scary notice to stop this
pressure. There handling this
with a deliberate crudeness and
unnecessary way. Patients and
understanding would more
productive.
I have had to go more to the
Doctors and take more
medication, cry, can't sleep,.
My Lawyer does not send
strong worded notices and so
they continue.
Do I have any rights as sufferer
of these issues, and do they
have a right to use them
against me.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: divorce..
Anyone can send the "I'll take you to court" "threats." Then yes, you can send back whatever strong worded letter you want. But, I don't know that it's a question of sending them a strong letter as much as it is addressing and resolving whatever issues are preventing the completion of your case. What are the issues, what are the sticking points? You need to get to the finish line and there is only 2 ways to do it: (1) you and your spouse's written agreement; or (2) court order, which only comes after a hearing.