Legal Question in Family Law in California

Did you ever file any kind of paternity action? If so, there should be an open case for you to file a motion in. If not, it seems the judge wants you to go that route. File an action to establish paternity, custody and support, and as additional relief ask for a sole posession and occupancy order for the family residence. I have to say, though, I'm surprised. I would have thought the UD was the way to deal with this issue.

I agree with Mr. McCormick that a UD case is the way to go. You may want to seek the assistance of a local attorney to help with this. In a paternity action, the Court doesn't have jurisdiction over property, only over custody, visitation and support. I doubt a court would be willing to make any property orders even if a paternity case was open as this exceeds their authority. It sounds like the judge is looking for you to file a "Marvin Action" which is like a family law case for non married long term couples. However, this would be the route your ex would take, not you. This may be a little too complicated for you to handle on your own.