Legal Question in Family Law in California

My ex girlfriend of six years said she would file a restraining order against for calling and emailing her and coming to here place unwanted. At the time my attempt to communicate with her was out of desparation and I was trying to get back with her after a break up.

I stopped all communication with her after her warning and pretty realize that I'm better off without her. How long do I have to wait before the dated emails and phone call become invalid? Or will she beable to use the non threatening emails against me forever.

Trying to move on with my life but we have a membership at the same gym and I have some friend who uses this gym as well. But right now I don't want to go to that gym because of the possibility of her using it against me.

When is the best time to go the public gym and not concern myself with her?


Asked on 9/01/09, 10:11 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys
Lyle Johnson Bedi and Johnson Attorneys at Law

Stopping contacting her should greatly alleviate the possibility of her taking action to obtain a domestic violence restraining order. It takes effort to seek a court order. Just continue to stay away from her. Try to adjust your shopping, travel etc to minimize unexpected contact with her. If it happens that you should accidentally meet leave the area. If she says hello respond politely and then leave. Do not linger and talk to her. Move on with your life. You have done all that you can do to avoid her seeking a restraining order. Should you be served with a temporary restraining order immediately retain an attorney to represent you.

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Answered on 9/02/09, 2:25 am


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