Legal Question in Family Law in California

husband won't get job

I have been the major income in our marriage since 1992. The kids are now older and my husband is winding down his home business but refuses to get a job or to even discuss it with me. We own a home and have one child who will be 18 in less than 6 months. Will I have to pay alimony to him? He stands to inherit quite a bit from his father, will this be community property? My retirement savings are in my name only, is this considered community property should we divorce? I'm weighing my options. I don't want to divorce him but I am losing self respect and respect of him. I worry that he stays with me because it's easy. I make almost $100,000 a year and don't want to end up with nothing.

Thanks for your help.


Asked on 11/07/05, 9:25 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

H.M. Torrey The Law Offices of H.M. Torrey

Re: husband won't get job

We certainly empathize with your situation, as it definitely sounds as if you are the "work horse" in a waning marital relationship. However, marriage is serious business and community property rights do kick in regardless if it seems fair or not. From the facts given, the answers to your questions are as follows, but feel free to contact us directly for further assistance:

1) you may end up with support payments to your husband if the court deems that such a solution is equitable under a totality of the circumstances test.

2) an inheritance is generally deemed to be the separate property of the inheriting spouse, not community property unless certain exceptions exist.

3) your retirements savings will be legally deemed a community property asset unfortunately, unless an exception exists. Meaning, all earnings during marriage are considered a community property asset, of which your retirement/401K is such an asset.

We hope this has helped in weighing your options. Contact us today for any additional assistance.

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Answered on 11/08/05, 1:19 am
Brian Levy, Esq. Law Office of Brian Don Levy

Reply: husband won't get job

In a general sense, inheritance ALWAYS starts out as separate property, no exceptions. It can become community property if comingled beyond the point of tracing. Spousal support is a complex issue that requires more details from you before a meaningful opinion can be expressed.

For a specific opinion regarding your individual circumstances, I suggest that you consult with an experienced family law lawyer. Experience is not expensive, it's priceless!

You will find some valuable information on various California family law issues inckuding spousal support by visiting my web site.

Good luck to you!

Brian Levy, Esq.

www.calattorney.com

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Answered on 11/08/05, 11:27 am


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