Legal Question in Family Law in California

The agreement is most likely entirely unenforceable by either of you. There are two legal principles that apply, waiver, and abandonment of contract. It sounds pretty clear that both of you abandoned that agreement and reconciled your marriage. Even if you did not meet the standard for an intentionally abandoned contract, by not applying and enforcing its provisions, a court would almost certainly find you mutually waived any right to enforce the terms.

Agreement aside, as for what you are entitled to, that is what a family law case is all about. There is no way to say what you might or might not be entitled to without a full consultation regarding all the details that go into a divorce case and/or settlement.

Lastly, if he is threatening you with violence and the threat is at all credible, you need to file for divorce immediately and in the same filing ask for a domestic violence restraining order to have him removed from the family residence and kept away from you. DV is not just physical attacks. Any credible threat of violence or bodily harm is enough to qualify for a restraining order in a domestic case.