Legal Question in Family Law in California
Is it legal to have my live in girl friend file to request child support from me, for the children we have had together? In order to force a court or a judge, to have to lower what I currently pay my ex wife in child support?
I live in California
2 Answers from Attorneys
If you and your girlfriend are living together with the children, she generally will not be able to get child support any more than a new wife could. You yourself are entitled to a hardship deduction, however, for children of a new relationship that you live with and support. So you should file for a modification of support on that basis. If you are not living together, yes, it is legal for her to file for support and you would probably be much better off to get an order to pay her support instead of just supporting her children off the record.
An order to pay support to your new girlfriend would be ridiculous if you two are still living together. The guideline support formula presupposes you are not cohabitating and sharing equal responsibility for the children. (Meaning the children in your current relationship.)
Payment of child support for a new relationship is considered a hardship deduction when calculating child support with your ex-wife. If this was not done for the support order that you are paying now, you should file an OSC for modification of child support as pointed out by Mr. McCormick.