Legal Question in Family Law in California
Legally changing a child's last name after marriage
My fiance and I are getting married at the end of June. Her son, age 10, has been raised by her alone, without support of any kind from his biological father. His legal last name is the same as his mother's. He has expressed his desire to change his last name to mine after the wedding. We are all very happy about it, but we are not sure how to do it and we are hoping for some direction. I am interested in adopting him, but what legal concerns would we have concerning the absent father? We are not even sure we can get in contact with him. Can we do this without his consent?
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Legally changing a child's last name after marriage
The mother can have her son's legal name changed, especially if she has sole custody of her son, then it is really no problem. If you are honestly thinking about adopting her son, then you can have his name changed during that process as well. If the biological father has abandoned the child, then adoption will not be much of a problem, even if he contests the adoption. Depending on the situation of when the child was born, a parent abandons his child if he has no contact with the child and does not pay child support for over one year.
Even if you do not know where the father is, you can still adopt the child. However, there are legal ramifications of adoption, you should use an attorney for the adoption.
Please feel free to give me a call if you would like to discuss the matter with me, I would be happy to speak with you.
Michael D. Burt
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Re: Legally changing a child's last name after marriage
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Mother can "informally" change the child's name at school and maybe even get a new Social Security card for the child by showing her marriage license. To legally change the child's name for all purposes will require that you at least attempt to locate the father and get his contest. Regarding adoption, same applies. Try to locate and get consent. If you cannot locate him and/or consent is not obtained you still can adopt if the father has abandoned or failed to support the child. (There are legal definitions of both circumstances that you must know and apply.) I do NOT reccommend "do it yourself" adoption. Hire a lawyer. Mistakes can come back to harm or haunt you and/or the child many many years later.
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Re: Legally changing a child's last name after marriage
His mother can inform the school that he is changing his name.
In regard to the adoption you should hire an attorney. The notice can be given by publication, if necessary.