Legal Question in Family Law in California

If she has an attorney, you REALLY need to get one of your own. Even if she doesn't have one, you really should at least get a consulting attorney under a limited scope representation agreement to help you with this. Courts do NOT favor sole custody. They want children to have regular and frequent time with both parents unless that is impossible or not in the child's best interests. When both parents are asking for sole custody, it is a sign that there is a real mess and usually it means that the children's best interests are not being considered. Having an independent professional assisting you to sort this out will be invaluable.