Legal Question in Family Law in California

In California it can't be done. My gf wanted to get pregnant and use me as a sperm donor since she thought she had to do IVF to get pregnant. She wanted me to waive rights because we hadn't been together too long and in case we didn't work out she wanted me to just be like an annonymous donor. Had the IVF worked, I could have waived rights. But it didn't. Then, like all the stories you hear, she got pregnant the old fashioned way the next month! So we consulted a specialist in adoptions, sperm donors, etc. And we found out there is no way for me to give up or for her to cut off my paternal rights. It also means that he has support obligations too, though. So if you're stuck with him having rights, you may want to go down to your local county Child Support Services office and have them establish paternity for you. That way if you can't keep him from having rights, at least he'll have to share in her support too.