Legal Question in Family Law in California

Re: New Marriage

Yes. Once you adopt, you are the parent.

Re: New Marriage

Yes, if you adopt the child and divorce, the noncustodial parent has to pay child support. On the other hand, if you don't adopt, and she dies or gets sick or goes to jail, you will lose custody. See "How to Adopt Your Stepchild in California" available from nolo.com .

Re: New Marriage

There is no legal difference between a biological child and an adopted child. You would be responsible for supporting the child, including child support if you dissolve the marriage. Good Luck, Pat McCrary

Reply: New Marriage

In a general sense, if you adopt and then divorce, you are obligated to pay child support. Depending upon your unique circumstances, if you do not adopt and lead the child to believe that you are his or her father, than you may be required to pay child support upon divorce.

For a specific opinion regarding your individual circumstances, I suggest that you consult with an experienced family law lawyer. Experience is not expensive, it's priceless!

You will find some valuable information on various California family law issues at my web site.

Good luck to you!

Brian Levy, Esq.

www.calattorney.com

Re: New Marriage

If you adopt the child, then the child has all the rights, including inheritance rights, of a natural child.

It is the child, not the mother, who is entitled to support, and as the adoptive father, you certainly have the duty to support the child.

Your question leads one to believe that you are less than committed to the child and/or the relationship, and it may be better to reconsider your position before you adopt.

Damian Nolan