Legal Question in Family Law in California
Which way should I go?
I am married with 4 children ages 16 to 19. Everything was going well until my husband left for the US. I met an old friend and things got out of control, I had an illicit relationship with this guy who is an american citizen. We have been in a relationship since 2001 without the knowledge of my family. My husband has a religious visa. He is not a U.S. citizen neither am I.
My boyfriend wants to marry me and help me get my children and myself to go to the U.S.
My husband and I had a falling out because of my coldness toward him.
Is it possible for him to grant me a divorce even if we are not married in the U.S. only in the Philippines?
I would love so much to marry my boyfriend but I am at a lost to what to do.
My husband is also trying to get our children to go to the U.S. I don't have the heart and guts to break my infidelity to my husband and children. I also do not want to jeopardize the chance of my children to go to the U.S.
What or which way should I go? I am so torn and at a lost. Could my boyfriend petition me without me being divorced (no divorce here)or having my marriage annulled? What is the best thing to do?
Thank you so much.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Which way should I go?
Yes, you can have the marriage declared a nullity even if he is in the US and the marriage is celebrated in the Philippines.