Legal Question in Family Law in California
I'm in the middle of a divorce right now and wondering if I have to wait out the divorce in order to have an affair with another person?
3 Answers from Attorneys
Legally you don't have to wait. It might not be a good idea, however, for moral and practical reasons.
Your personal relations have no bearing on a divorce case except if there are children involved and the person you get involved with presents issues that would negatively reflect on you for custody. Merely "moving on" before the divorce is final should not have any affect at all on the case, even custody.
Involving yourself in a romantic relationship has no bearing on property division issues in a divorce action. The psychological factors are the front end concern one must address. If this new relationship helps support you emotionally as you go through the divorce, then there is wisdom in allowing the relationship to unfold. If you feel the new relationship may complicate things (ie: emotional triggers for you or your soon to be ex spouse, children adjustment issues to the new relationship, etc) then it may be prudent to wait.The answer provided to this question is general in nature and cannot replace the advice given by a qualified attorney during a confidential office meeting designed to fully explore your legal options.