Legal Question in Family Law in California
Military Divorce in California, but Legal Resident of Oregon
My wife and I are getting a divorce. I am active duty military (they don't handle civil matters), but my spouse is not. We are currently residents of Oregon, but my wife is changing hers very soon to California where we both currently live because I'm stationed here. She's threatening to get a lawer here in California and force me into a California divorce settlement (which sucks because of the community property laws). Is there any way I can prevent this, besides resigning from the military and moving back to Oregon? She's trying to take my daughter away from me, and I have by far the better income, and she's asking for the divorce to begin with. There are no extenuating circumstances (like affairs or violence) other than her bad finances.
Please help me if you can!
Thanks.
3 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Military Divorce in California, but Legal Resident of Oregon
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Re: Military Divorce in California, but Legal Resident of Oregon
This is a bit complicated. First of all, California will not have jurisdiction over your military pension unless you so agree (generally). Since it seems OR is the home state on your LES, you could file for divorce in OR. She could then file in CA (assuming she's been here for 6 months) and there would be a decision as to which state has jurisdiction. One possiblity is that everything but custody/visitation would be decided in OR and the kid stuff in CA (again, assuming the child has been in CA a significant period of time)
Oregon is a community property state, too.
Lastly, you can file here with a "Tucker" petition. That gives CA jurisdiction over everything but property (i.e., your pension)
Re: Military Divorce in California, but Legal Resident of Oregon
1. You can protect your pension in California if done right and she is the Petitioner, and that is the usual concern of military people.
2. If the child has resided in Cal for six months or longer, Cal.likely will make the decisions re the child.
3. Notwithstanding response #1, above, do not get hung up on community v.non-community states. It is my impression that "non-community property states" get the same general results, albeit by a different path.