Legal Question in Family Law in California
Non-custodial parent stating will not return children from visitation
My children (12 and 8) are with their dad in California. Prior to them going, he ''pressured'' my son to live with him for a year. I said no because the schools and area are lacking where he lives and my son currently is a straight A student with no behavioral problems. I sent them to california for the summer so I would not violate my order. I have friends in california stating he is going around saying he will not send the kids back after their visitation is over. What can I do? Will it be considered kidnapping? My separation agreement which was incorporated into the divorce decree only states that I have custody and that if he moves out of state (which he did before the divorce was even final) that he would have 45 days with the kids. That's all! Also, My oldest child (15) did not go to visit her dad because he didn't send her a ticket because she doesn't get along with him. I ''just'' found out he hit her on her visitation last summer and gave her a black eye and a fat lip. I don't want my other two kids in that environment. Help! Also, he tried to get me to sign papers stating he could take them out of the country and I refused and sent a notarized letter stating so. What are all my options?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Non-custodial parent stating will not return children from visitation
If he does not return the children you may need to get a Writ to pick up the children. You might be able to use the District Attorney child stealing unit in the county that he is located. I would start now to locate the child stealing unit (it may have different names in different counties) find out what you will need to provide that DA if and when he refuses to return the children. You should obtain three certified copies of your current custody order so you are prepared. Hopefully, 45 days will expire before the children need to return to school so that it is very clear that he has kept them too long. You may also wish to contact CPS in the county where he lives to report the abuse of your daughter. If the DA cannot help you find an attorney in that county that knows how to do a "Warrant in Lieu of Habeas Corpus". Law Enforcement will "arrest" the child and take them into protective custody and then turn the over to you. In the meantime, they may search his home and decide to investigate the child abuse from last year. He is in for a difficult time and is creating more problems for himself than he can imagine. If the attorney has never done one before, move on to the next attorney, they are fairly simple once you have done one, but they are simple mess up, if you haven't done one. When you know the steps that need to be taken, you can then inform him that you are prepared to have the children picked up. California courts lack jurisdiction to modify the current custody order and he must return to the state the issued the order, or the state the you are currently living in to modify the order. You are in a very strong position legally, hopefully, it doesn't cost you a lot of money to exercise your rights. Good Luck, Pat McCrary