Legal Question in Family Law in California

Pregnant Mom abandoned by Dad during Pregnancy, Never Married

I became pregnant during ''safe sex'' and dad has never wanted the baby. I have been cooperative giving him rights to all doctor appointments, information about pregnancy etc. His father has also stated the family has no interest in the child if dad does not. Dad and I were amicable until a girlfriend appeared. He now claims I have never let him participate and lies to family/friends to look good. I have been hospitalized with pre-term labor and had him contacted hoping he may have ''come around''. He wants to show up ''only when the baby is born'' and wants 50% custody. He has never paid for anything and has changed his mind back and forth for months. The girlfriend has threatened to hurt my son. He has tried to force me into an abortion, adoption, then wanted me to sign legal papers promising not to tell anyone about the baby. How can I protect my son from a father that only wants to ''save face'' but does not want this child. How do I keep his insecure ''girlfriend'' from hurting my son? What are my rights to protect my son from unstable game players?


Asked on 1/22/01, 9:11 am

2 Answers from Attorneys
Ken Koury Kenneth P. Koury, Esq.

Re: Pregnant Mom abandoned by Dad during Pregnancy, Never Married

First, don't sign anything that he wants you sign. Once the baby is born you can go to court and ask for full custody and child support.

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Answered on 2/15/01, 2:20 am
OCEAN BEACH ASSOCIATES OCEAN BEACH ASSOCIATES

Re: Pregnant Mom abandoned by Dad during Pregnancy, Never Married

You may file a paternity suit or wait until the father files, then defend it. Until then, he has no rights, and, unfortunately neither do you in regards to financial assistance from him. Did you apply for medical assistance from the state? The state will help with pre-natal care and financial support once the baby is born. The DA will go after the father for reimbursement of the State. You may contact me directly at (619) 222-3504.

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Answered on 2/16/01, 12:17 pm


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