Legal Question in Family Law in California

Ex Requests More Money Above Support

My ex and I recently completed proceedings to modify child support. I now pay her a considerable increase per month. We avoided court once she stated the amount she wanted, it was in line with the Disomaster and I stipulated to her request. It has been my understanding this amount is to cover my portion of the children's needs and extra-curricular activities. She was informed by my attorney that no additional funds would be available to her. The ink barely dried on the revised agreement when she was asking for additional funds to pay for my children's sports activities. Furthermore, she told the coaches that she would only pay 1/2 and committed me to paying the other half, without even consulting me. At what point can I say enough is enough, and I pay my portion of these activities each month when she cashes my support check? Is it appropriate that ''my portion'' be included in the support I pay? I'm not trying to shortchange my children; I've always made sure they are provided for. But giving her more money and still having me pay for the kid's activities, etc. while she spends the increased support on herself and her travels is extremely frustrating. I appreciate any insight you can provide. Thank you.


Asked on 6/09/03, 1:20 am

2 Answers from Attorneys
Rhonda D. Beers, Esq. Law Office of Rhonda D. Beers

Re: Ex Requests More Money Above Support

I would have to see what the judgment said, but the Dissomaster does not normally include extracurricular activities. From a practical standpoint, you may be better off just paying the 1/2 than paying an attorney to fight this in court.

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Answered on 6/09/03, 2:01 pm
Brian Levy, Esq. Law Office of Brian Don Levy

Reply: Ex Requests More Money Above Support

You are required to pay whatever the Court Order states, no more and no less. I suggest that you consult with an experienced family law lawyer. Experience is not expensive, it's priceless!

You will find some valuable information on various family law issues including child support issues at my web site.

Good luck to you!

Brian Levy, Esq.

www.calattorney.net

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Answered on 6/09/03, 5:28 pm


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