Legal Question in Family Law in California
Who is responsible for a 17 year old minor if he is living with his grandmother. His mother who is my sister lives one mile away. The 17 year old has had friends over and they have been seen on my mothers roof (she has a two story house) the neighbors saw this and run over yelling for my mother to come out and see what was going on. The boys jumped off on to the fence. Very dangerous. There has been a break-in in the neighborhood a cross from my mothers house (jewelry was stolen) she lives in a very good neighborhood this does not happen. There was small cups found taped to the gutters with plants growing in them. I have mentioned to my mother that she may want to buy extra insurance on her house. I worry about my 84 year old mother. I would love to see this boy go back to his mothers house and live.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Unless there has been some legal action terminating the parental rights of the child's biological mother, she remains responsible for both his support and his conduct. If the grandmother is providing housing for the child, ok, youth, she is also responsible for his behavior as he is technically in her home and subject to her control. My concern, as a family member, would be what is happening between the child and his mother such that he is no longer living in her home and appears to be unsupervised by his mother. You should discuss the situation with your mother and your sister and possibly even your nephew. If the family members are unwilling to take the appropriate steps to address your nephew's conduct, it may be appropriate to involve the juvenile court authorities. Hopefully there are solutions to your family's challenges that do not involve the juvenile justice system but this may also be one of the few ways to get the youth the supervision and behavior modification resources that he may require.