Legal Question in Family Law in California

restraining orders

my wife is claiming she went to her lawyerand said she wanted to get a restraining order , she said her lawyer was gonna do it for her this was on thursday october 2nd 2003, doesn't she have to go in front of a judge with her lawyer? and there hasn't been any kind of violence between us ,she said she just wants me out of the house, but why do i have to leave my home can they make me do this.


Asked on 10/04/03, 11:42 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Donald Holben Donald R. Holben & Associates, APC

Re: restraining orders

It sounds like you need to retain an attorney now. She can get a temporary restraining order without appearance and within a very short period of time you and she will have to appear to pursue and defend against this. If kids are involved, the judge will allow kids and care parent to remain in house and other move out if violence. Unfortunately, in domestic matters, lies are not uncommon. Just make certain you do not affect a court's actions by actually committing any bad or perceived bad acts. Call to discuss 800-685-6950 Don Holben

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Answered on 10/06/03, 11:12 am
Wayne Wisong Wayne Wisong, Attorney at Law

Re: restraining orders

I agree with Mr. Holben, but the facts you gave asserted there was no violence, so I will give you the answer on the basis that you will not be confronting lies. She cannot have you removed just because she asserts she wants you out and nothing more. Even if a divorce, parties are normaly entitled to continue residing together until it is final, unless someone affirmatively seeks an order removing the other and asserting some kind of danger, etc. But, he is right, the danger here is that she is planning to make up a tall tale about what you did and, if she does, she could get a temporary order removing you until a hearing is held. If you are served with such an order, the police will insist you leave immediately or be arrested. So, you need to find a place you might be able to stay until the hearing. And, by all means, consult a lawyer now.

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Answered on 10/07/03, 5:58 pm


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