Legal Question in Family Law in California

Unfortunately, you really can't force someone to be a good parent. I suggest documenting each call and attempted call for your records. Start keeping a journal. If the other parent ends up asking for more time (a request that usually follows a child support order) then you have documentation that the other parent is not actively participating (and therefore should not be given custodial time...) If such a request is made, ask for reunification therapy...

Depending on your son's age, you might consider counseling. There are low-cost centers and, if you have insurance, it may cover a substantial portion.

I know it's frustrating and hard, but do not speak badly of the other parent around or even if your son is in the house. This will hurt your son more than help the situation. Concentrate on being a positive, stable, considerate and loving parent. Hope this helps & good luck!

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This answer is offered for informational purposes only. It is not offered as, and does not constitute, legal advice. Laws vary widely from state to state. You should rely only on the advice given to you during a personal consultation by a local attorney who is thoroughly familiar with state laws and the area of practice in which your concern lies.