Legal Question in Family Law in California

Thinking about DIVORCE

I am thinking of divorcing my husband of 17 yrs. We have two children under the age of 18 and own our own home. If I do divorce him I can only take one of the children with me as he will NOT pay me child support and I cannot afford to maintain a household with 2 children. (one 14yrs & one 8yrs old)When I say he will not pay child support I mean that he works construction and has told me before he will work ''under the table'' so as to avoid having any income. My question is, am I able to try to get ''spousal support'' from him. ( I know you are probably saying, if you can't get child support how are you going to get spousal support?) Please humor me..Also, re: the house we are currently are paying on and living in, I know he wouldn't be able to afford the home on his own income, how can I get to keep the home(without buying him out) I was told about a law in Calif.has that allows the spouse keeping the children to stay in the home until child/ren are 18 yrs old.


Asked on 11/01/02, 3:14 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

E. Daniel Bors Jr. Attorney & Counselor At Law

Re: Thinking about DIVORCE

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Answered on 11/04/02, 8:27 pm
Brian Levy, Esq. Law Office of Brian Don Levy

Reply: Thinking about DIVORCE

You need to consult with a qualified family law lawyer. It may be possible to secure his community property interest in the marital assets to pay his child or spousal support obligations. Also you need to know that it is not likely that the child support will end up being the same amount per month for each child! There are specific issues that you need to go into detail on before you make any decisions, including a child and spousal support estimate.

Good luck to you!

Brian Levy, Esq.

Law Offices of Brian Don Levy

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Answered on 11/01/02, 3:21 pm
Matthew Kremer Law Offices of Matthew M. Kremer

Re: Thinking about DIVORCE

Let me try to give you some more specific answers.

Regarding support, your husband will hardly be the first deadbeat the judge has had before him claiming that he has no income. You will be able to tell the judge that he said he would work under the table. You would also be able to show what kind of income you two had before the separation. How about those loan applications? Further, income can be imputed to him if he claims he is not working.

You might want to keep both kids together, with you.

The foregoing also applies to spousal support.

The house: What you are referring to is commonly called a "Duke" order or a deferred sale of home order (DSHO). Duke was a case that allowed for forcing the out-parent to wait for his money. It was codified, and modified, by the legislature. This is a difficult order to obtain, as you have to show that the harm to the children in moving outweighs the harm to the out-spouse in having to wait years and years for his money and give up the right to invest his share as he sees fit (rather than investing in your house).

You'll also want to consider if any separate property money went in to the house (inheritance, gift, etc.).

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Answered on 11/01/02, 4:06 pm


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