Legal Question in Family Law in California

Re: Whatcan i do now?

Even if you found the CPS worker, your verbal agreement with him/her is basically meaningless as far as custody orders in family law court. If you are concerned about the saftey of your son then bring this to the attention of the court. If you feel your son is in immediate danger - e.g., the boyfriend is still around, then you may want to seek restraining orders in the family law court and/or or call CPS. But if you are concerned about the emotional impact of living in a crime scene only, you have a harder argument. The child is in fact living there, and so the question is, how is he doing? Many crime victims continue to live in their homes. Unless your ex unreasonably refused a witness protection program or the like, it is hard to see a court ordering a move. I would be more concerned that the child was getting proper therapy. In general, and to address the problems you are having with your visitation, you may want to seek legal advice about whether orders for a custody evalaution and/or minor's counsel would be an option for you. You might also want to consider joint counseling or mediation with your child's mother in order to discuss your concerns and what is goign on with your visits.