Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in California

Irrevocable Trust

I am engaged to be married to a man

who has considerably more wealth

and financial value than me. He has

an irrevocable trust in his grown

daughters' names. He wants to use

that as the down payment on the

house we will buy before marriage.

His lawyer has advised him to keep

the house in his and his daughters'

names (my name would not be). I

am very bothered by this. He claims

that I'd be protected if he died. But it

feels wrong to me. What if he dies. I

will be living in his daughters' house.

I feel as his wife, we should share

ownership and own the house

together. The daughters will inherit

their portion when I die if I outlive

him. Does this sound wrong to you?


Asked on 6/03/09, 9:55 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

Michele Cusack Pollak & Cusack

Re: Irrevocable Trust

There are some very complex issues here. You should be represented by your own attorney. Ask your fiance to pay for it.

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Answered on 6/03/09, 12:45 pm
Chris Johnson Christopher B. Johnson, Attorney at Law

Re: Irrevocable Trust

Your understanding is correct--without some agreement with his daughters, they can take the house back, or at least claim their ownership in a portion of it.

I'd recommend an agreement between all the parties regarding ownership of the house (how will the loan payments be credited, and to who, for example), as well as exploring the possibility of a prenuptial agreement so that you both have the same understanding of your finances together.

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Answered on 6/03/09, 1:40 pm
Robert Mccoy Law Office Of Robert McCoy

Re: Irrevocable Trust

It sounds to me like you a doing the right thing by questioning these matters before marriage instead of after. A pre-nup is usually a good thing in the sense it lets both sides know what the other expects out of the marriage. If you cannot agree, then I would say the best divorce is the one that never happens.

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Answered on 6/03/09, 4:49 pm


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